The Six Men You’ll Meet On A University Sports Team

University is a great place. You’ve finally got some independence, you can reinvent yourself so that nobody has to know what a loser you were in high school, you can try new things and meet new people. It is also, a hive of activity, there is loads to do and so much to get involved with. From Clubs and Societies, to Sports Teams, you can make plenty of new friends or have a potential romance…but approach with caution, not every man you meet in a sports team will be your Prince Charming. Here’s a definitive list of the guys you … Continue reading The Six Men You’ll Meet On A University Sports Team

I used the same line with men on dating apps…here’s what they said.

If you’ve ever used apps like Tinder, Bumble or Happn, then you won’t be surprised when I tell you that the most common opening line from guys is a simple ‘Hey’. After 50 or so of these messages, it gets a bit monotonous. After my last post, you’ll know I was left a little stung after an encounter with a man that thought he was the centre of the universe. So, a bottle of wine deep and 3 dating apps re-downloaded, we’re ready for a not-so-scientific experiment. If men can hit girls up with the same ‘Hey’ every time, I … Continue reading I used the same line with men on dating apps…here’s what they said.

11 signs he’s actually, definitely, 110% into you.

So I thought I’d offer out some friendly advice for all guys and gals that are still wondering if that special person is ‘the one’. This is like, expert level dating advice, so if you’re a novice you’re probably thinking that all these signs means he doesn’t like you. You’re wrong. He’s totally in love with you. 1. He’s totally playing hard to get. He’s a busy guy you know. He couldn’t possibly spare 2 seconds to reply. Just text him again. 17 times. He will love it. When he does respond, make sure you’re waiting by your phone so … Continue reading 11 signs he’s actually, definitely, 110% into you.

David & Zoe

I should probably premise this by saying that I don’t believe in marriage…not in the sense that I don’t believe it exists, more that I just don’t think it’s the right choice for me. Could you imagine? Having to have sex with the same person? For the rest of your life?! No thank you. [It’s also because I don’t think any man would be crazy enough to sign up to having to deal with me for the rest of their life….but the first part makes me feel better about myself, so we’ll go with that] Now we’ve got that bit … Continue reading David & Zoe


Ok; I’ll admit it. I’ve been avoiding posting. It’s not because I haven’t wanted to. I’ve just been reflecting. Sometimes I wonder whether or not this blog is a good idea. When I set it up and first  publicly posted, a couple of guys got in touch and asked if I would ever write about them. Funnily enough these were men that weren’t note-worthy at all, mostly because they weren’t very interesting as humans, but also I didn’t feel that the experiences I’d shared with them were worth talking about. One opinion that really stuck was from a guy  I … Continue reading Tony.